213 - Abandonment creates and also activates shame

One of the many sources of shame for us both as children and adults is physical and/or emotional abandonment. When we distance ourselves from our loved ones we are creating shame for them and perhaps triggering their old abandonment shame. No blame. Normally they will transfer the shame back to us with their own language/behavior of shame. No blame and mostly without awareness. And on and on.
Peace,
Ken

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