Thursday, July 2, 2009

209 - "Two lost souls"

When we use, consciously or unconsciously, any of the avoidance mechanisms Iisted in my post #205 we will activate/trigger shame in other people. They will in turn transfer the shame back to us with one of the avoidance mechanisms and on and on it can go. I call this "two lost souls" triggering each other and it's no-ones fault. Although we are all responsible for our selves, our feelings and actions, there is no basis for blame in my view. When I blame someone it is always when I feel shame and then they will often feel shame and рдеेंblame.

Peace,
Ken

Instructions posted between #197 and #198.

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