When we feel shame we can short circuit the feeling by blaming someone else or even ourselves. The blame also transfers the shame to others. We need to feel these feelings to heal them. Peace, Ken
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Just the other day I was shaken by a massive shame attack. On the surface I really was 'hard done by'. Regardless, the shame was focusing my anger/resentment and I was missing out on my day. The ability to sit and feel is something that doesn't appear to be native to my DNA. The breathing technique and the sharing with others technique has helped tremendously. Pax Vobiscum
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Just the other day I was shaken by a massive shame attack. On the surface I really was 'hard done by'. Regardless, the shame was focusing my anger/resentment and I was missing out on my day. The ability to sit and feel is something that doesn't appear to be native to my DNA. The breathing technique and the sharing with others technique has helped tremendously.
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I'm glad those tools have helped.
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